Showing posts with label Self Improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self Improvement. Show all posts

Monday, April 18, 2016

Live On Sunday Night With "Scott Binsack" Knowing Your Why? - "Finding Your Purpose"



"Nothing, not all the armies of the world, can stop an idea whose time has come"- Victor Hugo
On this week's powerful show, Scott Binsack shares with you how he has taken traumatic hardships head on, using intense focus & sheer determination to identify his purpose life and to overcome great adversity.
Do you have purpose in your life?
There has to be motivation and drive when we want to achieve anything in life. Without it, we get caught up in the lifeless, humdrum world that unfortunately too many people experience day after day, month after month and year after year.
We were never meant to live our lives like machines, but for the majority of people that is exactly how they choose to live. They don't want to think for themselves and would rather have somebody else tell them what to do. We have a brain, but how many really use it?
The power of purpose is indeed a great power and each and every human being has the choice to use it. We should all have a purpose to aim for, it is what brings excitement into our lives, looking forward to a new day, sharing new experiences and helping us to become the best that we can possibly be. A mundane life is no life, hoping and dreaming that something good will happen. It ain't gonna happen!
You have to make it happen through the resolve of your own desire and the natural power of purpose. Look at how the world has moved even in the last thirty years. An idea has been planted by people that typify their own natural power of purpose, they wanted to make a difference and didn't stop until they did. Look at the mobile phone, the home computer and the technology that is moving faster each and every day. These are just a few examples of what the power of purpose can achieve.
Now we can't expect everyone to be a Bill Gates, Michael Dell or a Charles Dunston, but surely it is better to live your life with the natural power of purpose and to achieve feats that are maybe a little less conspicuous or you may want to change the world. It is a waste of life not to be driven on a daily basis with the desire to become more and live your life with the natural power of purpose.
Join Scott Binsack as he challenges you to find purpose in your life. Using his hard hitting tell it like it is style, Scott shows you how to harness your energies into creating a purposeful, meaningful, & successful life.
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Thursday, December 31, 2015

CEO "Scott Binsack" Making Resolutions ~~ "Time for That 'New Year, New Me' Bull(shit)"





The lights are up, the decorations are on display and holiday consumerism is at its best. That’s right. It’s nearly …that time again: time for more New Year’s resolutions, which — if you’re like 92% of folks — will be broken in fairly short order.
The statistics are bleak. A mere 8% of people actually stick to their New Year’s resolutions, with many abandoning those resolutions inside of a week!
We’re surrounded by “New Year, New You” rhetoric. Yet the fact remains: little, if anything, will change when the clock strikes midnight on December 31, 2014. It’s just plain unrealistic to believe that a well-established habit or tendency that you’ve spent all year engraining will be miraculously eliminated or overcome once the calendar reads “2015.”
In fact, many go into the new year with a resolution that lacks a definitive plan of attack, with measurable, “SMART” goals (Specific, Measurable…
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Tuesday, April 28, 2015

How to Set Goals — “SMART” Goal Setting

Set and achieve your goals.
Setting goals and actually achieving those objectives can be a real challenge for many individuals. It’s easy to procrastinate or to set goals that leave you set up for failure before you’ve even gotten started.

The “SMART” goal setting technique provides you with a formula that sets you up for success.
SMART is an acronym that stands for:

S – Specific
M – Measurable
A – Achievable
R – Realistic
T – Time-bound

Let’s look at these different elements as they relate to goal setting and how using this method can increase your chances of success.

Setting Specific Goals

It’s important to be specific in your goals so you know exactly what you’re striving to achieve. Saying you want to be “successful” is too vague. It’s better to aim for something more specific, like striving to get a particular job or increasing your earnings to a particular dollar amount, for instance.

Setting Measurable Goals

Goals must be measurable. Striving to feel better about yourself, for instance, isn’t really measurable, so you never really know if you’ve succeeded in achieving it! So instead of setting a goal to feel better about yourself, think of what “feeling better” actually means to you; define what it would take to “feel better.” Perhaps it means losing 10 pounds or sticking to a daily skin care regime to clear your skin or getting 8 hours of sleep per night. Make it something measurable so you’ll know whether you’ve succeeded!

Setting Achievable Goals

Your goals need to be achievable. For instance, it’s impractical to seek a job as a veterinarian if you don’t have a degree in veterinary medicine. And earning that degree in veterinary medicine involves achieving lots of smaller goals first. Therefore, it’s more practical to set a goal to apply to 3 veterinary schools by the end of the week. Your next goal might be to achieve all As in your first semester of veterinary school. Then you might strive to complete veterinary school by a particular date. Only once you have your degree can you seek out a job as a veterinarian.

So set a goal that’s achievable in the foreseeable future. Otherwise, if you set a goal that’s beyond your reach or requires lots of work over the long term to succeed, it can be discouraging and you’re less apt to achieve your objective. Always keep sight of the long-term goals and the big picture, but place your primary focus on the here and now as you work toward achieving your short-term goals. You can’t win the race if you stumble at the starting line.

Setting Realistic Goals

It’s great to dream, but you’ve got to be sure that you’re realistic in your objectives. Aiming to run a 3-minute mile, losing 20 pounds in a week or traveling to Mars are three examples of goals that you’re very unlikely to achieve. They’re simply not realistic. It’s good to aim high, but don’t aim for a goal that’s virtually impossible to reach. Avoid a situation where you’re most likely to fail and find yourself disappointed.

Of course, that’s not to say a goal that’s unrealistic today will always be so. Perhaps in 20 years travel to Mars will be commonplace and new scientific advances will make it possible to lose 20 pounds in a week and run a 3-minute mile. But today, chances of achieving these goals is quite slim, so be a realist and set goals that you can actually achieve.

Setting Time-Bound Goals

Your goals must be time-bound in some way, shape or form. Saying you’ll go back to school “someday” allows you to procrastinate indefinitely. You must set your goals in a way that prevents procrastination, as procrastinating is a primary obstacle that prevents success.

Set a deadline for your goals. Instead of saying you’ll go to back to college “someday,” make a commitment to fill out 5 college applications by the end of next week.
Goal setting is a key element of personal development. When you take a “SMART” approach to goal setting, you’re setting yourself up to succeed.

If you’re ready to take your life and your career to the next level, it’s time to discover The Rain Maker personal mentorship program with “Scott Binsack” and team! Learn more today and fill out our eligibility assessment form to find out if our program is right for you. Stop dreaming and start achieving!























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Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Sunday Night With "Scott Binsack" Presents: Reclaiming Life ~~ "Finding Our Own Personal Freedom"



“The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage.”  - Thucydides

Over the ages, mankind rose up above other species, developing a unique sense of self. Today, we strive to achieve a sense of personal freedom; freedom that encompasses the spiritual, social and financial realm. Our purpose is to pursue a higher purpose.

But relatively few people actually achieve a real and true sense of personal freedom. Too often, we're shackled by self-oppression. These self-imposed restraints are rooted in doubt and fear. We are consumed by the societal norms and the expectations of those around us. And in this position, we find that we're compelled to put aside our desires, our dreams, our true destiny and our freedoms. It's all hastily shoved aside in favor of a different life; a life where your personal identity is shaped and dictated by others.

You bury the real, authentic you. You deny this true self in favor of becoming the person that others expect you to be. It's something that's engrained within us from a very young age. As children, we're taught to suppress our authentic selves. We're told to speak in a certain way, behave in a certain way, think in a certain way and live in a certain way. Slowly but surely, we lose our authenticity. That incredible realness that makes young children so profoundly refreshing and so truly joyful fades away. We give up our personal freedom and we reject the authenticity that we once had in childhood. We become the socially-acceptable version of ourselves.

But that's just the beginning.

You'll go on to study hard in order to get the degree that society says you need to have in order to have the career that you need to work at in order to get the house and the car and the bank account balance that society says you need to have in order to find happiness. You'll finally get all those things --- the things society says you should have --- and you'll realize that they didn't bring happiness. You'll 'have everything,' yet none of it will matter because you didn't do it for you. You did what you were told. You gave up your freedom to live the life that society said you ought to live. Personal freedom wasn't the only thing you sacrificed. You sacrificed true happiness too.
True happiness requires personal freedom. You must free yourself from the grips of society and society's expectations. Real, personal freedom is the biggest motivator you'll ever discover. You'll be free to be yourself. You'll be free to pursue your passions. You'll even discover financial freedom. You'll live for yourself, not for others.

Finding the courage to be yourself is the challenge. But it's a mission that can be fulfilled. Once you achieve this, your world will be forever changed. You will achieve true personal freedom; the freedom to be yourself and the freedom to live life to the fullest.

In tonight's show, "Scott Binsack" issues a challenge to his viewers.  Scott challenges you to overcome the doubt, the fear and the hesitation. He challenges you to make this --- today --- your personal independence day, as you seize and embrace your true, authentic self; the person you really are. He challenges you to re-take your life and own the real you --- not the 'you' whom others wish you to be.

For when you do this, when you declare your own, personal independence day, you will find that you're instantaneously released from the bonds that stand in the way of true self-realization and real, complete happiness. You will have reclaimed your personal freedom.

Join "Scott Binsack" in this incredible show. It's one that's certain to lift you up, transforming a vague motivation into a pointed sense of purpose as you discover and embrace the real person who dwells within you.



















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Thursday, January 1, 2015

Sunday Night With "Scott Binsack" Presents: True Love ~~ "The Man In The Moon"



“If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.” ~Khalil Gibran
[But is that really true?]

True Love: The Man in the Moon

It's the first show of 2015 and we're going to tackle a tough topic: true love and the story of the man on the moon.

Last February, right around Valentine's Day, we explored a story involving my mother and the man who would ultimately come to be known as the man in the moon.

It's a profoundly moving and emotional story that has impacted me since childhood.

I used to believe in the saying: If you love someone, you should set them free and if they truly love you, they'll return. I no longer believe this. I believe that if someone truly loves you, there will be no reason to set them free; they shouldn't come back after their first choice didn't work out, whatever the choice may be.

People tend to toss around the term 'love' as though it's a casual term. But it's anything but. Love is truly transformative and it's a force that can change your life in the most powerful ways.

I consider myself a hopeless romantic; I believe in true love. I've learned that  many abuse victims like myself find themselves on a lifelong quest to find true love. They're often amongst the individuals with the biggest hearts and the deepest desire to love and be loved --- even if that desire isn't outwardly apparent through the hard, protective shell that many abuse victims develop.

When I first shared this story of the Man in the Moon, I didn't share all of the specifics.
I've since realized that it's a story that must be told --- in its entirety.

Over the past year, it's a story that's taken on new meaning as I myself became a Man in the Moon.
Recent events have transformed my view of life and love. I've come to realize that I was wrong; that love and intimacy aren't the only part of the equation.

There's more.

The Story of the Man in the Moon

My mother was a woman who suffered many traumas in her life. She was from a lower-middle class family that was plagued by dysfunction; a dysfunction that came to a head when she witnessed her father hang her mother from a 13th floor window amidst a drunken rage.

My father was from the other side of the tracks. He came from a prominent and wealthy family.

My parents met at a driver's ed class. My mother said she loved my father, but she wasn't madly in love with him. She got married because that's what was expected; getting married young was the norm.

My mother's true love was a man named Charlie --- a man whom I'd come to know as The Man in the Moon.  Charlie ultimately married another woman, just as my mother had married another man. But their respective marriages were no obstacle and they would meet in secret. Sometimes, I'd wait in the car, parked on the side of the road. I was just three or four years old when I first witnessed my mother in a rare state of pure happiness as she shared intimate moments with this man.

Charlie's moniker --- The Man in the Moon --- was practical yet accurate. He was a man who was ever-present in her life and in her heart, yet in many ways, he was inaccessible. It was a practical term too, since my mother frequently brought me along when she met up with The Man in the Moon. So when my father asked, “What did you do today?”, my honest reply would be a seemingly fanciful: “We saw the Man in the Moon.”

After 14 years of marriage, my parents got divorced. But Charlie never left his wife --- a woman who happened to be one of my mother's best friends.

In time, Charlie and I became friends.

Years passed.

One day, my mother and I met Charlie for lunch. At one point in the meal, my mother left the table, heading for the restroom. I've always been very direct and I asked, “You love my mother. Why won't you leave your wife?”Charlie replied, “I have children, obligations.....But someday, we'll make it work. Someday.”

I knew that he truly loved my mother. And over the years, my mother continued to receive flowers, cards and other tokens of his affections.

They continued to see each other, but Charlie never did leave his wife. In this way, he truly lived up to his moniker, The Man in the Moon, remaining ever present yet inaccessible.

So my mother set out on a mission to find another man. She sought to replicate the intense bond that she shared with Charlie.

But true love was elusive. She re-married and divorced twice.

In the end, my mother was miserable, forever haunted by the forbidden love she shared with The Man in the Moon.

Years later, my father said, “I love your mom, but your mom was always in love with Charlie --- The Man in the Moon. He should have married her.”

The story of The Man in the Moon has led me to realize that love exists separately from intimacy. And if you don't have intimacy --- an incredible bond with another human being --- then you don't have anything.

These are just some of the topics we'll be exploring on the latest episode of Sunday Night With "Scott Binsack". It's a must-see episode; one that will force you to confront and reconsider your views of love, intimacy and true love.












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Sunday, December 14, 2014

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Making Resolutions ~~ “Time for That ‘New Year, New Me’ Bull(shit)”

The lights are up, the decorations are on display and holiday consumerism is at its best. That's right. It's nearl...y that time again: time for more New Year's resolutions, which --- if you're like 92% of folks --- will be broken in fairly short order.

The statistics are bleak. A mere 8% of people actually stick to their New Year's resolutions, with many abandoning those resolutions inside of a week!

We're surrounded by “New Year, New You” rhetoric. Yet the fact remains: little, if anything, will change when the clock strikes midnight on December 31, 2014. It's just plain unrealistic to believe that a well-established habit or tendency that you've spent all year engraining will be miraculously eliminated or overcome once the calendar reads “2015.”

In fact, many go into the new year with a resolution that lacks a definitive plan of attack, with measurable, “SMART” goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound.)

It's a set up for failure and it's the type of failure that can harm your self-esteem and self-worth, leaving you languish amidst that which you sought to stamp out. So instead of losing weight, you find yourself cuddled up on the couch, downing an entire pint of ice cream (the good stuff, not the crappy fat free variety), followed by a vodka chaser to drown your miseries.

Quite simply, New Year's resolutions are a load of crap.

New Year's resolutions are an archaic tradition, dating back to the time of ancient Babylon when the people would make promises to the gods for the upcoming year.

But these resolutions were very different in nature. They weren't seeking to stamp out deeply engrained behaviors and bad habits overnight, nor were they striving to achieve a complete psychological overhaul. The Babylonians' resolutions were much easier to achieve, perhaps vowing to return a loaf of bread to the neighbor to make up for the loaf that they had previously borrowed.

So with this in mind, perhaps it would be more appropriate to make a New Year's resolution to return your neighbor's weed whacker.

What's more, the Babylonians believed that they would be struck down by their gods if they failed to follow through, making the consequences very compelling.

Without the threat of divine bombardment, many lack the motivation and incentive required to effect real, lasting change.

The bottom line is this: New Year's resolutions are all about hype. If you really want to change or improve, don't wait for the new year to arrive before taking action. Start your transformation today! And if you make a mistake, you'll know you're human. Get up off the ground, dust off those knees and keep going.

Procrastination and postponement could be construed as evidence that you're not ready to change; perhaps you don't really want it. Perhaps you're meant to travel down a different path.

There's no guarantee of a tomorrow, so live as though today was your last day. Become the person you want to be beginning this very moment. Start the transformation process now. Set yourself up to succeed with a goal that's achievable, measurable and realistic.

Once you achieve that goal, establish a new objective and continue growing and improving. Life is a journey, not a destination. So hold on tight and enjoy the ride.

These are just some of the topics we'll be exploring on the latest episode of Sunday Night With Scott Binsack. It's a must-see episode; one that will set you up to succeed beginning right now. 












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Making Resolutions ~~ "Time for That 'New Year, New Me' Bull(shit)"


The lights are up, the decorations are on display and holiday consumerism is at its best. That's right. It's nearl...y that time again: time for more New Year's resolutions, which --- if you're like 92% of folks --- will be broken in fairly short order.

The statistics are bleak. A mere 8% of people actually stick to their New Year's resolutions, with many abandoning those resolutions inside of a week!

We're surrounded by “New Year, New You” rhetoric. Yet the fact remains: little, if anything, will change when the clock strikes midnight on December 31, 2014. It's just plain unrealistic to believe that a well-established habit or tendency that you've spent all year engraining will be miraculously eliminated or overcome once the calendar reads “2015.”

In fact, many go into the new year with a resolution that lacks a definitive plan of attack, with measurable, “SMART” goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound.)

It's a set up for failure and it's the type of failure that can harm your self-esteem and self-worth, leaving you languish amidst that which you sought to stamp out. So instead of losing weight, you find yourself cuddled up on the couch, downing an entire pint of ice cream (the good stuff, not the crappy fat free variety), followed by a vodka chaser to drown your miseries.

Quite simply, New Year's resolutions are a load of crap.

New Year's resolutions are an archaic tradition, dating back to the time of ancient Babylon when the people would make promises to the gods for the upcoming year.

But these resolutions were very different in nature. They weren't seeking to stamp out deeply engrained behaviors and bad habits overnight, nor were they striving to achieve a complete psychological overhaul. The Babylonians' resolutions were much easier to achieve, perhaps vowing to return a loaf of bread to the neighbor to make up for the loaf that they had previously borrowed.

So with this in mind, perhaps it would be more appropriate to make a New Year's resolution to return your neighbor's weed whacker.

What's more, the Babylonians believed that they would be struck down by their gods if they failed to follow through, making the consequences very compelling.

Without the threat of divine bombardment, many lack the motivation and incentive required to effect real, lasting change.

The bottom line is this: New Year's resolutions are all about hype. If you really want to change or improve, don't wait for the new year to arrive before taking action. Start your transformation today! And if you make a mistake, you'll know you're human. Get up off the ground, dust off those knees and keep going.

Procrastination and postponement could be construed as evidence that you're not ready to change; perhaps you don't really want it. Perhaps you're meant to travel down a different path.

There's no guarantee of a tomorrow, so live as though today was your last day. Become the person you want to be beginning this very moment. Start the transformation process now. Set yourself up to succeed with a goal that's achievable, measurable and realistic.

Once you achieve that goal, establish a new objective and continue growing and improving. Life is a journey, not a destination. So hold on tight and enjoy the ride.

These are just some of the topics we'll be exploring on the latest episode of Sunday Night With Scott Binsack. It's a must-see episode; one that will set you up to succeed beginning right now. 


 









Thank you for watching, liking and subscribing,
 "Scott Binsack"

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Friday, December 12, 2014

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Making Resolutions ~~ "Time for That 'New Year, New Me' Bull(shit)"
















The lights are up, the decorations are on display and holiday consumerism is at its best. That's right. It's nearly that time again: time for more New Year's resolutions, which --- if you're like 92% of folks --- will be broken in fairly short order.

The statistics are bleak. A mere 8% of people actually stick to their New Year's resolutions, with many abandoning those resolutions inside of a week!

We're surrounded by “New Year, New You” rhetoric. Yet the fact remains: little, if anything, will change when the clock strikes midnight on December 31, 2014. It's just plain unrealistic to believe that a well-established habit or tendency that you've spent all year engraining will be miraculously eliminated or overcome once the calendar reads “2015.” 

In fact, many go into the new year with a resolution that lacks a definitive plan of attack, with measurable, “SMART” goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound.)

It's a set up for failure and it's the type of failure that can harm your self-esteem and self-worth, leaving you languish amidst that which you sought to stamp out. So instead of losing weight, you find yourself cuddled up on the couch, downing an entire pint of ice cream (the good stuff, not the crappy fat free variety), followed by a vodka chaser to drown your miseries. 

Quite simply, New Year's resolutions are a load of crap. 

New Year's resolutions are an archaic tradition, dating back to the time of ancient Babylon when the people would make promises to the gods for the upcoming year. 

But these resolutions were very different in nature. They weren't seeking to stamp out deeply engrained behaviors and bad habits overnight, nor were they striving to achieve a complete psychological overhaul. The Babylonians' resolutions were much easier to achieve, perhaps vowing to return a loaf of bread to the neighbor to make up for the loaf that they had previously borrowed. 

So with this in mind, perhaps it would be more appropriate to make a New Year's resolution to return your neighbor's weed whacker. 

What's more, the Babylonians believed that they would be struck down by their gods if they failed to follow through, making the consequences very compelling. 

Without the threat of divine bombardment, many lack the motivation and incentive required to effect real, lasting change. 

The bottom line is this: New Year's resolutions are all about hype. If you really want to change or improve, don't wait for the new year to arrive before taking action. Start your transformation today! And if you make a mistake, you'll know you're human. Get up off the ground, dust off those knees and keep going. 

Procrastination and postponement could be construed as evidence that you're not ready to change; perhaps you don't really want it. Perhaps you're meant to travel down a different path.

There's no guarantee of a tomorrow, so live as though today was your last day. Become the person you want to be beginning this very moment. Start the transformation process now. Set yourself up to succeed with a goal that's achievable, measurable and realistic. 

Once you achieve that goal, establish a new objective and continue growing and improving. Life is a journey, not a destination. So hold on tight and enjoy the ride. 

These are just some of the topics we'll be exploring on the latest episode of Sunday Night With Scott Binsack. It's a must-see episode; one that will set you up to succeed beginning right now. 


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Tuesday, December 2, 2014

SUNDAY NIGHT'S HIGHLY RAVED SHOW IS NOW UP & LIVE!! THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK ~~ “CONTROLLING OUR EMOTIONS”



Words are powerful weapons as well as attributes to success,. Use them wisely. For, once said they can never be taken back!! – “Scott Binsack”
The old saying .. “We take things out on the ones we love” does not make it right and causes a serious communication breakdown in any relationship or workplace!! Identifying this bad behavior and fixing it is the only way for us to have true communication and thus, solid relationships with others.
Join “Scott Binsack” in this life changing show.  As he discusses how his behavior at times in communicating with those he loved was his way of  lashing out to prior unsettled issues of past pain and anger. Hurting those involved with harsh and undeserved words and how now he has come to recognize this and how to change it!!
SPEAKING::
One of the most obvious and significant attributes of humans is the ability to communicate through speech. An interesting corollary is that we can also communicate our thoughts in real time; we do not need to plan what we’re going to say before we say it. This has both advantages and disadvantages. It would clearly be undesirable for us to have to formulate our thoughts before issuing an immediate warning “run!”. And communication would be dramatically slowed if we were unable to respond, fluidly, to people in normal conversation.
On the other hand, this innate ability is often the source of consternation when what we say on the spur of the moment is something we later wish we had either not said, or had said differently; it,sometimes, happens to each of us. The trick is to remember when. Typically, this happens when we are responding in stressful situations, or during confrontation, although it can happen at any time. Recognizing that we do not always say what we would like to communicate is an important realization. Mitigating this issue is not complex, but it does require some behavioral changes. The goal is to be aware of when to talk naturally and fluidly and when to think before we speak and when not to speak at all.
COMMUNICATION:
Finding a way to dial down your sensitivity chip while you are in a relationship is easier said than done. If you tend to be more of an emotional person, falling hard when in love, finding techniques or ways to erode sensitivity can be tough. However, if you have gotten hurt too many times in the past because you’ve jumped in with both feet, use your current relationship to help you pull back the emotion, while at the same time still having fun and engaging in a bonded situation.
Identify your emotional triggers:
Find your hot buttons and learn how to wrangle those under control. Not only will subduing emotion be good for your relationship, it will be better for your mental health in the long run.Identify your emotional triggers. Find your hot buttons and learn how to wrangle those under control. Not only will subduing emotion be good for your relationship, it will be better for your mental health in the long run.
Separation anxiety:
Do you get upset when he/she wants to be friends or has to do something at night that is work related? Even if you don’t say anything to him/her, do you get upset so that it is disruptive to your life?
Jealousy:
Do you have a hard time seeing him/her converse with people of the opposite sex? Or is your honey an eternal flirt? What happens when you see your mate flirting or in a situation where others are doing the flirting with him/her? If there is truly no reason to suspect your mate of cheating, consider how your overt jealousy affects the relationship. Does it bring you closer together or does it drive a wedge between you?
Clinginess:
Even though you love him/her so much, showing it by hanging all over him/her or demanding you two be tied at the hip may not be best for your relationship. Tap into your sense of independence and remember that you are two entities that came together for love.
External factors such as family or work:
Do you get emotional with your significant other in certain situations such as being around your family or at work functions? Your emotional side may be more tied to situations rather than how you feel in general.
Determine how your emotions impact your relationship.
Some people love having a very emotional mate, however consider how your overt emotion is affecting your self of being and sense of worth.
Can you separate from this person and function independently? Do emotions prevent you from being an independent person and can you approach life both as a couple and on your own? If your emotions have taken over and seem to be preventing you from approaching life on your own, you will need to determine why you need the other person to be happy or experience an encounter alone.
Does your mate seem to be pulling away from you? Historically have your emotions been a caveat to why you’ve broken up? Has your mate become withdrawn or unhappy because your emotions seem to overwhelm the relationship? If you want the relationship to work, consider how your emotional expressions could be sabotaging it and why.
Become more communicative instead of emotional. When a baby cries he/she could be experiencing a variety of emotions or physical feelings because infants have no other communication skills. Luckily, as an adult you don’t have to resort to childish outbursts and can use words instead. Instead of resorting to old behavioral or non verbal mannerisms or emotional outbursts, consider taking a more methodical, communicative approach to explaining how you feel. You can still let the other person know what you are feeling or experiencing, but use your intellect so you can truly convey your emotion.
Identify which emotion you are feeling and write down when and why you feel that way. For example, if you are overwhelmed with jealousy instead of lurking behind bushes or fake plants at the next cocktail party you both attend, write down that you are jealous and when you are jealous. Is it when you are in social situations and other people hit on your mate or when he/she flirts with others? Also, name specific encounters so you can articulate and refer to when and where you felt this emotion. Choose an opportune time after you are not so overwhelmed with emotion to discuss how you feel.
Avoid acting on your emotions as you are experiencing them. Even if you are overwhelmed with love, instead of bear hugging and/or jumping into your betrothed arms, wait for a moment when you can regain your composure and calmly communicate how you felt. Tell him/her why you have come to love him/her and when this feeling washed over you.
Take ownership of your emotions!!
Often people try to tell the other person that he/she “made” them feel a certain way. No one can manage your emotions but you. Own your feelings but say why. For example, if you are experiencing separation anxiety say, “I feel so alone when you are out of town every week. I enjoy being with you and feel sad and alone when you are away.” However, avoid getting angry at the other person or blaming him/her for how you feel. Own it and resign yourself to doing something about it.
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Information in this article was in part gained from: http://www.wikihow.com/Think-Before-Speaking

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